The 5 Languages of LOVE!

So while I was reading a Point of View piece about letting the US go bankrupt or not and some review about James Bond SkyFall, I came across this link called the 5 languages of love. Curious to know what it was, I clicked the link and a set of 30 questions was presented to me. I found it rather insightful and entertaining so it was a pretty good thing to stumble upon.

Now these quizzes are only fun if you can get other people to take them too and share their results. Now, people will talk about it for a week. Some more memorable quotes:

Anthony:  hola

 Sent at 8:31 PM on Monday

 me:  hello mister

 Anthony:  lol

what do you think about my dumplings?

 Sent at 8:32 PM on Monday

 me:  lol

you want words of affirmation

HAHA

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me:  man still procrastinating

 Pingjing:  it's human nature

I am doing the same

reading your blog and online shopping for my friends

 Sent at 8:38 PM on Monday

 me:  LOL!

no you're doing something for someone

haha

act of service!

you're so great

 Pingjing:  haha, words of affirmation

 me:  HAHA

--------------------------me: i don't need a mug

  i got plenty now

  hahhaha

 stella: hahahhaha

  :)

  cool

  so you would drink thet's :)

 me: you really like bambi huh

 stella: i collect them..so i was soooo mad i missed out a year :(

 me: sure

 stella: i wonder when is a good year to stop

  hahhahhaha

 me: i am doing an act of service

  HAHAHA

12:21 PM stella: HAHHAHAHAHAH  

If you happen to be curious to find out your own stats, I would be doing an act of service providing such a link to you! CLICK HERE!

• Words of Affirmation

  Actions don’t always speak louder than words. If this is your love language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing the words, “I love you,” are important—hearing the reasons behind that love sends your spirits skyward. Insults can leave you shattered and are not easily forgotten.

• Quality Time

  In the vernacular of Quality Time, nothing says, “I love you,” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes your significant other feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed dates, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful.

• Receiving Gifts

  Don’t mistake this love language for materialism; the receiver of gifts thrives on the love, thoughtfulness, and effort behind the gift. If you speak this language, the perfect gift or gesture shows that you are known, you are cared for, and you are prized above whatever was sacrificed to bring the gift to you. A missed birthday, anniversary, or a hasty, thoughtless gift would be disastrous—so would the absence of everyday gestures.

• Acts of Service

  Can vacuuming the floors really be an expression of love? Absolutely! Anything you do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an “Acts of Service” person will speak volumes. The words he or she most want to hear: “Let me do that for you.” Laziness, broken commitments, and making more work for them tell speakers of this language their feelings don’t matter.

• Physical Touch

  This language isn’t all about the bedroom. A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, holding hands, and thoughtful touches on the arm, shoulder, or face—they can all be ways to show excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse can be unforgivable and destructive.